After marriage, she wanted to ask me to take 300,000 debt, borrowed my dowry, I not? Specific things I said slowly, please help me to look at, it needs to borrow it?

Married Qian situation is, I home urban two sets House, a duplex two layer added up more than 200 more flat, a is more than 130 more flat of House, Dad MOM buy to I of. husband home in suburb points of place has two suite, a more than 40 more flat of old community of House, a 100 flat not to of new community of House, has decoration had, was is as new homes of, but place too partial has, out buy a eat of are tired, and away from we work of place and far.

Fall in love with my husband when I explained, I’m not going to live so far House, don’t go around my house, and in-laws in our relationships in urban areas after buying a House, sell the old community of more than more than 60 House (wrong above … ), Intends to they himself to live that decoration good of new homes, but old public economic conditions not how line, he mother on and we discuss, they out House money, I home out decoration money wrote two a people of name, but buy room of when wants to more pay points down payment, money enough, I mother on put decoration money 500,000 first to has old public, then 1.2 million put House buy has, There are 300,000 of the us as well … in fact, my heart doesn’t want me to MOM and dad out of the money, her husband’s parents can’t afford to buy a House we both live in my house, afford to buy after or, what I do not want to add your name …

This is decorated well, now equal to we bought the House with the two a bit, I do not care what name, husband home renovated the House and bought my original idea … always a kind of strange feeling …

And get married, what does his mother to buy 50,000 ring gold, Then to 100,000 block dowry. 50,000 of gold money also only enough I buy a ring added Gold Bracelet, because I was wants to of is buy Cartier of on ring added a ring, with I husband zhiqian also discuss had of, so husband himself money we on buy has on ring. I dad MOM to has 1 million of dowry, plus to I and I husband buy has Cartier of table, two only table more than 130,000 more, to I and Mus musculus buy various things spent has more than 100,000. do banquet is I dad selected has we side best of hotel, I dad mom really I knot once married are wants to to I best of, then old public somewhat burden not up, anyway last is do in with, but banquet money like of are the pay the of, on so Set.

Wedding I to help I husband home save money, find has I dry wedding of boudoir honey, let she help I directly find has four diamond, and flowers, lamp, dessert, such avoid wedding company from middle charges, then wedding company only do site layout, last is down more than 50,000 more wedding, has is I can accept of minimum has, and husband discuss has husband also agreed, after all good of hotel you total to with Shang good of configuration’s…

Zhihou this pieces thing on to has, married zhihou had has paragraph days, mother-in-law asked I take 300,000, said is buy House do banquet what of owes of external debt, mother-in-law this people compared save, buy room zhiqian is has deposits of, lifetime are didn’t back had debt, back external debt fear (this is she said), father-in-law also also in work and no retired, then mother-in-law said I MOM to I of money anyway I also put in Bank, or first take she debt, then slowly with father-in-law of wage (one years probably a hundred thousand of) also I, Ious to me. I heart is ignorant force, consult a husband, my husband is very difficult, said borrow borrow with my own, I couldn’t find my mom and dad talk, feel very embarrassed, reluctant, and don’t know how to refuse …

End child guys can you help me to think about the reasons for the refusal … Really embarrassing and annoying … Feeling speechless

I don’t want to take too … But I am not very good of her reasons for the refusal, but to say I don’t want to take, so a deadlock …

I am not giving parents money to subsidize to my mother-in-law, money is not blown in the wind … I’m not so silly. Yesterday night with husband good have on has Xia this pieces thing, with he showed that has I didn’t want to take, and I not to rebuffed mother-in-law, let husband himself to with he MOM on, yihou also don’t again mention this requirements. husband also with I apologized has, said yihou not let I annoying this thing, is successfully solution has. as husband with mother-in-law how on has not shut I of thing has.