In my experience, never married a Phoenix man, especially those from very poor family is particularly poor, … …  Besides my husband, although Phoenix man, the Phoenix man is absolutely typical of the society, brings your child, 30 years old, start a business, 1 million a year, to start from scratch.  Also, my husband, for me particularly well, family, love child, outside is an overbearing CEO, cook at home male qualities are very good, completely out of the reading period cock wire. it can be said that outsiders, is definitely a good man, a lot of people envy me.  However, what I’m saying is, but my good luck, marry his family of this poor family, but that he was promising, otherwise, I am now, life simply can’t imagine. He home in a province most poor of place, known as a province of Tibet. there of rural, families are can poor has, and poor and dirty, many people home with beggars live of place almost. but I old public also is households family, also relative clean. later, I is married Hou only understand to of, there many middle-aged above of people, fundamental not bath, and not brushing, and health habits and poor, and life is eat vegetables, and eat vegetables, has also has many people won’t eat meat!  It’s hard to imagine, right?  Then, he MOM to I home, won’t eat meat, meal meal vegetables, I buy meat has, will is distressed, sometimes I buy points what, she on in that see with see with. because I body is poor, cannot dry physical live, so hired has a cleaning, one week clean a times, 70 block money, is cheap of. then Lady see cleaning, a face of not happy, black with a face on with family. Earning 1 million! 1 million! 1 million! Only 30 years old, why spend 70 bucks to hire someone to clean you could not? And did not spend her money!  If it weren’t for her to pull, can take care of my children, I am now making 10 tens of thousands of dollars a year for almost, because she is too cheap, contradiction, so I can only get her back, I take care of their children at home, money was made.  The poor, that is, only cares about giving that little money, prefer to earn hundreds of thousands of less. so what are poor, shortsighted, for fear of being dyed by their behavior, I would rather leave them alone. poor habits, is so terrible there are many habits, bad, very, very backward.  Those spray child, you don’t spray I, said what is she training has I husband, not such of, when too poor, poor to eat rice, so I husband has been is desperately of learning, only test a school, then fast graduated of when, I of vision also is good, has been support he to of XXX company, was he didn’t want to to of, said treatment poor, but I see of is has future, can exercise capacity, on has been urged he to of. didn’t thought, he now should is we class Shang mixed have best of, in rural students in, is very good of has. But then like I so lucky to this, lots of people marry poor Phoenix and days dare not imagine.

If again let I selected once, he earned again more money, I also didn’t want to find he has, married, especially households fast to beggars level of family, wants to wants to, are think nausea, but usually only see I husband, see he home other people, I on annoyed. had married, age small, wants to with away from have far, anyway only with husband had, but facts is is married a family, too he MOM terrible has.  If the other had been chasing, I love my, now days is not bad.  A bank man, his only son, his family was well-off.  Is a middle-class family, father banks led, mother high school teacher himself in the finance industry, but when you think he’s not naïve … now that I think, men and women of the same age, the men never had any woman mature.  A is and I matched of xueba, special smart, special capable, graduated venture, years into 1 million +, unfortunately, good lives not long, accident died, then constantly appeared in I dream in, with I love, I Halo. this somewhat scary, but also somewhat let people was. If we in with, I’m afraid he also not has accident, should good live with, then earned many money. Hey, this is life.  One Phoenix man, also made a lot of money, a good car, but, I really do not like this model, like biggie.  Election to election, and married a family conditions are worst, sometimes think, chagrin … no wonder we were just talking about, around male and female students are not good, said that I had to find that he wasn’t good enough for me … but sometimes in life you will have, going the wrong way, end road and go slowly. Marriage really is the second birth of a woman, want unmarried sister, open your eyes, do not look for the poor married, prefer single, marry the poor, not only lack of money, even more terrifying is poor thinking, thinking will penetrate your heart and brain wash you.

Now that I think, maybe I am sometimes in life you will have in your life is not a poor, married, can lead a good life, and married someone else, someone to help me see the child, I can still go to work, and now year 10 there are tens of thousands of certain, so comprehensive, married other people better. But hey, still think, women still in their charm, their condition is good, to meet good men. a woman better, is beautiful, nice figure, qualified undergraduate, to be decent at least stable, taken together, Only conditions well. just looks good, is not enough, is pretty far, but talk good words and deeds, temperament, qualification, not much. when I think of the book, the landlord is also a very serious reading, very hard, very dedicated, so attracted to me, are both good men.

Now that I think, maybe I am sometimes in life you will have in your life is not a poor, married, can lead a good life, and married someone else, someone to help me see the child, I can still go to work, and now year 10 there are tens of thousands of certain, so comprehensive, married other people better. But hey, still think, women still in their charm, their condition is good, to meet good men. a woman better, is beautiful, nice figure, qualified undergraduate, to be decent at least stable, taken together, Only conditions well. just looks good, is not enough, is pretty far, but talk good words and deeds, temperament, qualification, not much. when I think of the book, the landlord is also a very serious reading, very hard, very dedicated, so attracted to me, are both good men.

-At least my husband will make money, but many, many Phoenix men don’t make any money at all, make the money a year, and subsidy offset the hole family. you look at our economic good, conflict so much, is totally economic things that cannot be resolved, other parents and cultural quality level is too low, serious son back.

-In fact, marry a rural people, and really want to see which parts of the countryside, in some places, such as Jiangsu and Zhejiang, many parts of the South, rural conditions have also not closed places, view of people’s perspectives are tolerable. but, in some places, especially some very backward place in the North, that’s called that lag behind. As my husband his house, the northern countryside, still reserved to guests at a woman eating may not be on the table!  Patriarchal attitudes are especially serious, notions, a lot of their habits, ideas still remain in the 50, was terrible. I am afraid that is the best I’ve encountered, even some of the older woman, still maintained a hot summer day can stay at her son’s naked upper body! Two breasts waving in front of son around!  Is barbaric, backward economy and culture to a certain extent it will.  And this phenomenon, on the Internet, I have seen several sisters spit on the Internet around married into that slot, is definitely not an example, my husband admitted that customs! So, like my old public this situation, no matter how much money you have, do not even want to, a lot of things, is money that cannot be solved!

Besides age, brings out baby!! Do you have a few such as the husband, 30 years old, and she started earning millions? There are several that brings your child?? Can only say that I was very lucky, I hit the games, or too hard to imagine the poor couple of days, only marry a humble family probably lived paycheck to day, and followed by the pension burden is particularly heavy burdens!

-Don’t you see where I am with my husband? Have you seen me? I’m ugly? Is in bad shape? Can attract some good guys, then I’m good!

-No dower, and no three gold, and no changed fee, and even body new clothes are no, and wedding is rent of, and no wedding live of hotel like a small hotel, married day, on to this accommodation treatment with husband noisy has a frame. then do has field special shabby of marriage, I home people didn’t to. married Hou second days, because pregnancy belly big, let husband help wash has pieces coat, he MOM on scolded he, said shouldn’t for I wash. This is typical of patriarchal thought serious. Then, not even my new quilt! He has cultivated a lot of cotton, they take home their own the cotton to make quilts. However, that is, his mother is pull to death, calculate anything, then please send us the 2 old quilt!  This is known as the wedding! Every time I think this treatment is now rich, I’m going to spend money, remedied the deficiency of year. years after marriage, her husband’s career took a helicopter-like, from the marriage began rising for the second month, and maybe I’m blessed.

Emitting upstairs, I wrote these, don’t you see that? If one day, your daughter is going to marry such a family, do you feel bad? Would you? Developed less likely, probably live a hard life, would you like to do?

After marriage in recent years, old woman, quality is very bad, in cities is not used, all appliances, except for the TV refrigerator with, others will not. smoke machines, washing machines, gas stoves don’t use. illiterate and can’t read. crossing does not, do not understand why do traffic lights. In conclusion, with this society, out of place.  All I can say is, when I was young, 20-something, very naïve, thought that the marriage is two people. Similarly, my parents also lack vision, not smart, not good give me checks, stupid … well, anyway, my daughter, firm will give her a good check. After marriage in recent years, was eating a lot of bitter, small children, old joint and several children have trouble with, no money, no output, then son Endowment money, such a family, you guys can let their daughters marry??

Fortunately, my luck is really good, playing the wrong card, again great! My husband’s character is very good, very responsible for family, very good for us, very homely. but all this before, I was very annoyed … If one more time, choose front, I have enough money on the line, at least not so much annoyed about.

-I write about it, hope unmarried sister, prefer single, don’t marry that family, is the ultimate distress, spiritual, physical, serious drag

Can only say that I am more blessed, God made me, or you, invincible is a hole, maybe my husband’s blessing, is me, now this society, which has so many students from impoverished backgrounds to your child. married the next day, her husband’s career with the rockets move onward. just came out, only 1800!

And, now I daughter also grew up some has, husband also agreed I of views, also identity, understanding I of thought, said future children do cannot find he home such of family, must to find a conditions good of, conditions poor, just material, more is thought spirit bones everything are no. husband also is times helpless of said, he is no approach select parents, no approach select origin, or so years, on not eat so bitter has. You see others seem to earn a lot, but often many sad memories, particularly brings out, often make a special effort to get behind today. husband says that when, in order to change the fate of poverty, has been studying very hard very hard, desperately for years have today.. …

Again, paper only wrote those and landlord when also young, and simple of small sister of, hope you don’t repeat I of road, and I also is was one of of special lucky, also has million points thousands of of sisters, married has such of family, live have health than died, prefer find the aspects decent of well-off, also don’t find but capacity can other are mess of family, is cumbersome, and cumbersome, material Shang of, spirit Shang of torture, understand did? Spray, spray spray as much as you like … too bad, did not know of learning, that went bad

-Only know to eat! Then your mother-in-law in the presence of your parents, two big breasted nude, to walk home. this kind of life, you